I am not angry. I am slightly frustrated that this exact conversation keeps happening and that you are choosing to levy mild accusations at me but I feel no personal stake in this because we do not know each other.
Anyways, what I said was that you are making the default assumption that a man is bad, and then allowing good men to be exceptions to this rule. The quote you provided agrees with that. This is not the same thing as the causal relationship in your later statement that "if a man is a POS towards women, he’s going to be hated", where you do not assume someone is a bad person by default. I think assuming someone is a bad person by default is a bad practice because it leads one to treat other people badly if they are not familiar with them.