Basically when I'm relaxed I act submissively but only when I'm on the alert I am assertive. It's like when someone asks you a math question out of the blue versus when you know you have to be ready for one.

Is this normal? Or should I try being more passively assertive?

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[–] 2 points 6 months ago

I have a feeling there might be someone who wants to put you under unnecessary pressure in specific situations. Maybe tell them to just fuck off in general

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