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[–] 14 points 7 months ago (16 children)

Please explain how I'm the one who's sexist? (I have you tagged as "Not a very pleasant person", wonder what this particular interaction will bring. 🤞)

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  • [+] [S] -15 points 7 months ago (14 children)
  • [–] 14 points 7 months ago (7 children)

    I'm gonna take that guy's advice and tag you as well

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Living up to my tag, I see. 👌

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  • [+] [S] -7 points 7 months ago (5 children)
  • [–] 7 points 7 months ago (4 children)

    Because I'm not afraid of you and you're not harassing me. You're just being a jerk in general towards everyone. 🤷‍♂️

    Do better. I'm willing to forgive and forget.

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  • [–] 4 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    Only you know the answer to that.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    I... don't even... What.

    Look, judging by the rest of your comment history, I can plainly see that you are a person with the ability to empathize and actually be kind. But I don't understand this derealization/depersonalization/disassociation going on with you in certain situations.

    Do you think it's fun to push people's buttons? Like let's get into the nitty. Let's open up the real shit. Do you wanna be real for a second?

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (1 child)

    This is a strange take. I'm in many communities. I don't shape shift and become a different person and become annoying or mean to people just because I click into a different community on my feed. It's just so odd.

    Like, fine, it's one thing if you're serious and acting grown in /science and joking around in /shitposting.

    But to actively troll people and be insulting and being a jerk? Why? I don't think you understand the vibe here. Look at the down votes. They should give you a clue that you are not, in fact, interacting "in accordance". 😕

    And there's a huge chasm between "a guy being silly" and being insulting and trolling. A guy being silly could actually be fun.

    You are not fun.

    You could be! But this ain't it, son.

    There's a lot more to your behavior than "I'm just having fun/being silly", and I think maybe a therapist is best suited to understand what it might be, because this behavior is not normal, so to say. Or maybe you already know what the deep shit is that's making you behave this way.

    Just... Think about it. Nobody likes this side of you. But I know you have different sides. You can be nice in this community, too.

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  • [–] 6 points 7 months ago (5 children)

    Not at all true whatsoever.

    The way the meme is sexist is the line "Name one song by [metal band]."

    It implies that whenever a woman says they like a metal band, she couldn't possibly just be taken at face value, and her word be trusted, because women couldn't "possibly" like something typically associated with men.

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  • [–] 8 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    You're overthinking it: "name N song(s) by $band" is a standard question asked by gatekeepers, it can be addressed to whoever regardless of gender. Not that sexists never use that line, just that it doesn't necessarily imply anything about women in general.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago* (2 children)

    This particular case is pretty clear though wouldn't you say? Look at the subject.

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    The question isn't the misogyny, it's the acceptance of an incorrect answer because the person answering is an attractive woman that's possibly sexist.

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