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[–] 1 point 7 months ago

I grew up in the times of "look at me when I talk to you" and would get in trouble for "looking past the person". So I developed an ability to make eye contact while unfocusing my eyes. Turns out if you make eye contact long enough people get uncomfortable and look away thereby letting you relax.

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