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[–] 27 points 7 months ago (7 children)

Compares dressing for presentation vs dressing for comfort

"Lol genders amirite"

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  • [–] 29 points 7 months ago (6 children)

    That said though, the sundress looks pretty breezy and comfy too

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago

    Eh, to each their own I guess. I don't like how snug the bodice looks, nor am I a fan of constantly managing my leg positioning and monitoring the breeze lest I expose myself - and that is without even mentioning sun protection. But you do you.

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  • [–] 1 point 7 months ago (4 children)

    i wish i could wear a sundress, they look so comfy

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  • [–] 5 points 7 months ago (3 children)

    You should wear a sundress then.

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (2 children)

    another crack in the egg i guess, thanks

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  • [–] 3 points 7 months ago (1 child)

    Eh, I'm at a stage where the gender binary makes zero sense when it comes to appearance and socialisation. Why do women wear dresses and men don't? Because dead people decided that men should dress one way, and women another, and we still cut about like any of that shit matters. I like to wear dresses not because I might be trans, but because I like dressing pretty. I'm a man who likes to wear swishy skirts around the house, and it doesn't bother my wife.

    Fat Mike said it best.

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  • [–] 2 points 7 months ago*

    yeah I think I'm around that stage too, I really don't care for my appearance in that way too much but I try to comply in public to keep my job

    i might dress and put a wig or something on halloween, my husband doesnt really care that much on my gender, he is a self declared pansexual and we joke a lot around me being trans or not

    it's difficult to put myself in any strict gender when i barely feel like performing as a person and it looks like a pain in the ass to perform femininity (i'm also very tall so performing masc is just existing for me)

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