You're an angry little pissant. She said no such thing, she said if she couldn't avoid ending up in a situation where stabbing is a serious concern she had made some poor choices. That's extremely different from 'getting stabbed is the victim's fault', which you chose to read it as. It's the difference between being hit by a drunk driver vs being hit by another car after running a red light. She very clearly listed places she avoids to intentionally reduce the danger of being a victim. Sane non-rage filled people understand the idea of avoiding danger just as they understand that not all people can avoid those situations nor can all danger be predicted.