I avoided tailscale for so long because I was already using wireguard and I didn't know you could self-host with headscale. But once I started using it with headscale the mesh design really is a big improvement to usability. I don't miss having to carefully manage my config files and ip route rules.

I need to get setup with app connectors and then I think it'll finally be a high enough wife-usability factor for me to remove some things I still have exposed over the internet.