▲ 32 ▼ In language classes, did you choose your name or get assigned one? Or use your regular name? (discuss.online) submitted 8 months ago by IHatePepRallies@discuss.online to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml 26 comments fedilink hide all child comments In Spanish class, we get Spanish names and can choose what we’d like to be called from a list. I’m Francisca (or Paca) because it’s similar to Francesca, my online name.
[–] rants_unnecessarily@piefed.social 2 points 8 months ago (1 child) Why would it be rude? Who's gate keeping the names? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] isyasad@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago You do not invent your own name sign. Name signs may only be given by a person in the Deaf community. Some hearing people (like interpreters and teachers) mistakenly give name signs without realizing they are in violation of Deaf culture traditions. However, a name sign cannot be assigned by a hearing person. American Sign Language has deep cultural and linguistic significance. Typically, it is not until you are involved in the community that you are given a name sign. In fact, not everyone within the Deaf community has a name sign. From article It's like a cultural thing. This still doesn't really answer why it's like that in the first place, but I think in general the reason it feels inappropriate to name yourself in another language is that it feels "cringe" for lack of a better word. Somebody picks a name that has all kinds of cultural and colloquial associations without understanding them at all. That's kinda my theory of cultural appropriation; it's not wrong because of some deep ethical reason, but rather it's just often uncool. People sending signals that they don't understand themselves. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] isyasad@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago You do not invent your own name sign. Name signs may only be given by a person in the Deaf community. Some hearing people (like interpreters and teachers) mistakenly give name signs without realizing they are in violation of Deaf culture traditions. However, a name sign cannot be assigned by a hearing person. American Sign Language has deep cultural and linguistic significance. Typically, it is not until you are involved in the community that you are given a name sign. In fact, not everyone within the Deaf community has a name sign. From article It's like a cultural thing. This still doesn't really answer why it's like that in the first place, but I think in general the reason it feels inappropriate to name yourself in another language is that it feels "cringe" for lack of a better word. Somebody picks a name that has all kinds of cultural and colloquial associations without understanding them at all. That's kinda my theory of cultural appropriation; it's not wrong because of some deep ethical reason, but rather it's just often uncool. People sending signals that they don't understand themselves. permalink fedilink source parent