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[–] 16 points 9 months ago (5 children)

Nah I only really play as girls to balance out getting seen as a "guy" so much IRL. Neither the "girl" build nor the "guy" build really have the kind of gameplay I'm looking for. What I really wanted to play as is something that makes people wonder which one I am. But when the random rolls in the character creator spit you out growing to 6'2" with a build like a fridge in a fursuit that build ain't something you can really respec into. So I'm stuck with "Giant Dad" basically.

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  • [–] 12 points 9 months ago (2 children)

    Big bitches are real and valid, if your physical shape is all that keeps you back.

    That being said there's a lotta ways to be happy, so long as you find one that doesn't hurt others that's whats important.

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  • [–] 1 point 9 months ago (1 child)

    Oh they absolutely are. No my problem is that I'm nonbinary and with my particular flavor I don't really want to be gendered as either. But with my build I feel like the only ways I really have a chance of being gendered are Bear Dad, Drag artist, and maybe a tall Soccer Mom depending on how well a hypothetical transition might go. None of those are bad, just as much as I don't identify with being male the same goes for fully being seen as female too.

    So I figure at least for now if I'm gonna be uncomfortable I'll take the devil I know, then I'll affirm my identity in other ways that make me happy.

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  • [–] 5 points 9 months ago* (1 child)

    I feel that vibe so hard.

    Getting gendered (at all sometimes) can feel like being stabbed with a fork dipped in sriracha. Worse when people reeeeally lean into it, for some god forsaken reason.

    Video games can be a pleasant temporary escape from that.

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