Yes, I threw Roblox in there because until just weeks ago it was primarily used as a social platform, at least by the few dozen kids I work with regularly. Cherry picking the fact that "games" increase hand-eye coordination is completely disregarding what type of game is being played, and is besides the point I was making.
As for a failure to imagine a solution, hosting a platform that
- has appeal to kids
- shouldn't be monetized
- actually verifies the age of its users
is MUCH harder than what you make it seem like, especially if we want to preserve the privacy that they deserve. Should it be run by the government for something like eID? Should it be run by a bunch of volunteers like lemmy, disregarding the age check? Neither of these sound very attractive to me.
Also, comparing "ban social media use" to "destroy our freedom" is completely unhinged imo. As I said before I do think there should be a space for kids to talk to other kids, but I just don't see a way for this to be realistically achievable online.
At the risk of sounding like an old man yelling at a cloud, this space for me was based in "real life" (not online) and here I found friends for life
Edit: funny to see you're the one downvoting me, isn't this a productive discussion?