In one study of 530 people, published in the Journal of Personality Disorders, we analysed written essays about peoples' close relationships. We also collected data on their levels of personality dysfunction. Those with greater personality dysfunction used language that carried a sense of urgency and self-focus – "I need…", "I have to…", "I am…".

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[–] 2 points 10 months ago*

The thing I strive for above all else is humility.

Admitting when I'm wrong, allowing the space for others to be wrong and to not hold it against them, to learn and grow from my failures instead of hating myself for them.

Humility is good.

Hard to maintain when you have the world's largest penis, millions of dollars in the bank, and all other people are like ants compared to you, but I wouldn't know anything about that since none of it applies to me.

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