There is a rhetorical hole that makes men and boys feel ostracized and isolated, and that’s what the right if targeting.

Yes, what's going is that some guy says "women need to give me sex no matter what". The left says "ehhh. No she doesn't, what makes you say that?" The right says "yeah bro, you're totally right!"

So yes, the left makes them feel ostracized and shamed for having opinions that should be ostracized and shamed. There is also help, but you have to take it. Meanwhile the right happily exploits them while agreeing wholeheartedly.