I'm not sure if this is intended as ragebait or you wanted to pull readers in but please for the love of god stop saying the cure for men's problems is feminism. Its the most performative male thing ever.

This guy does not get it. He will never reach the average man with his message. It is a similar to the redpill message but worded in a worse way and has tons of political baggage shoved in.

Its so reductive to say "just care" as if lonely men are going around having all these social interactions but the problem is that they aren't caring hard enough. Bro the problem is they are NOT having social interactions. Saying "you just need to talk with your partner about the division of house hold labour" or "have you considered watching over your friends children?" they dont have a partner, they dont have friends thats why they are lonely. "You just need more free time" free time won't do shit they have enough free time thats not the issue.

We’ve been told that anything outside of going to work or optimizing ourselves by lifting weights, sitting in ice baths, and pounding creatine isn’t worth much. That caring for others isn’t a “productive” or “efficient” use of our time. That someone else will always end up doing it. That we’re not supposed to do it because women are naturally, biologically designed for it and we’re not (which is untrue). That if we do it, we’re less valuable, like a woman, less of a man.

No we havent. No one has ever said this. I hate this stupid meme that men are raised as souless golems. Every man enjoys being around people and laughing. Everyman enjoys having a relationship. The problem isnt that they dont value it or "society has told them they can't". The problem is they not comfortable enough to put themselves out there and expose themselves to the social risk that comes with making friends or dating.