That's one of those things where the only way out is through.

I agree that we should all work on ourselves to the best of our ability, but I think the point I'm sticking on is the idea that this person deserves to be punished with revenge rudeness if they fail to perform politeness a specific way.

Or people could try not being so prissy and obsessed with victorian “values”.

"I did something great, you must now do it or you are less than me 👋"

Now let me condescend to you with advice that you don't want from a pretty obviously petty person that overcame one small flaw

Sounds great! Where do I sign up!

Yeeeeeah fuck off with that

And I'd tell you that, in person, both assertively and clearly