▲ 53 ▼ Hey, autists. What's something that irritates you that absolutely nobody else/a severe minority seems to care about? (lemmy.blahaj.zone) submitted 11 months ago by VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/autism@lemmy.world 84 comments fedilink hide all child comments Title says it all. What really irks you that you don't get to complain about much without catching some glances? Seriously, get as passionate as you'd like. I assume you're an expert.
[–] Eideen@lemmy.world 24 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (7 children) Lack of systems thinking /understanding. permalink fedilink source hideshow 7 child comments replies: [–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago (1 child) A long time ago I used to think I was not autistic. I remember complaining to my wife about something, probably vehicle traffic, and saying "why can't they see the system?" Eventually this turned into almost a catch phrase I would use to complain about people in general. In retrospect I find it pretty funny that I ever doubted. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] IronBird@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago huh, i'v been calling this The Game everyone is playing a game, knowingly ir otherwise...most seem to be unawares or in some kind of survival mode. most of the people awake seem to be taking advantage of the former. permalink fedilink source parent [–] cornshark@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago (4 children) What's system understanding? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago (2 children) Understanding the larger picture beyond the immediate scope. Example of lacking: complaining about traffic while literally being traffic. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago Omg yeeeessss. Almost daily once my family constantly asked "why do you take the train? Makes you dependend on the unreliable DB and takes 20 minutes longer to your work place" Yes, BROOT, buuut these 20 minutes extra are walking from train to tram, from tram to work. Its also cheaper instead of blowing 100€ each weak on gas alone i pay 58€ (soon to be 63€) monthly and can use any regional public transport. Not to speak of trying to find a parking spot, car repair, stress from driving, environmental costs, increased insurance and so on. On the trainstation. I read. If the train is delayed. I continue reading or if its for a long time, look around the city some more. I cant wait to move from near them on the country side to inside the city. Yes it might be 200€ more expensive than on the countryside (i shit you not, thats the difference). Then i fully can get rid of my car because right now i still need it to get to the car because no public transport is running when i need it. But the 200€ will be out done by the costs i save on car expenses and health permalink fedilink source parent [–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 months ago Or such egotistic views! "Wäää wäää they want to take away my oil and gas heating and give us air heating which would make us indipendent from russian oil and gas. Wää wää but its green. I DONT LIKE GREEN ANGYYYY" Litterly like small kids permalink fedilink source parent [–] Tehdastehdas@piefed.social 4 points 11 months ago I'm guessing systems thinking. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago (1 child) A long time ago I used to think I was not autistic. I remember complaining to my wife about something, probably vehicle traffic, and saying "why can't they see the system?" Eventually this turned into almost a catch phrase I would use to complain about people in general. In retrospect I find it pretty funny that I ever doubted. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 1 child comment replies: [–] IronBird@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago huh, i'v been calling this The Game everyone is playing a game, knowingly ir otherwise...most seem to be unawares or in some kind of survival mode. most of the people awake seem to be taking advantage of the former. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] IronBird@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago huh, i'v been calling this The Game everyone is playing a game, knowingly ir otherwise...most seem to be unawares or in some kind of survival mode. most of the people awake seem to be taking advantage of the former. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] cornshark@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago (4 children) What's system understanding? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago (2 children) Understanding the larger picture beyond the immediate scope. Example of lacking: complaining about traffic while literally being traffic. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago Omg yeeeessss. Almost daily once my family constantly asked "why do you take the train? Makes you dependend on the unreliable DB and takes 20 minutes longer to your work place" Yes, BROOT, buuut these 20 minutes extra are walking from train to tram, from tram to work. Its also cheaper instead of blowing 100€ each weak on gas alone i pay 58€ (soon to be 63€) monthly and can use any regional public transport. Not to speak of trying to find a parking spot, car repair, stress from driving, environmental costs, increased insurance and so on. On the trainstation. I read. If the train is delayed. I continue reading or if its for a long time, look around the city some more. I cant wait to move from near them on the country side to inside the city. Yes it might be 200€ more expensive than on the countryside (i shit you not, thats the difference). Then i fully can get rid of my car because right now i still need it to get to the car because no public transport is running when i need it. But the 200€ will be out done by the costs i save on car expenses and health permalink fedilink source parent [–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 months ago Or such egotistic views! "Wäää wäää they want to take away my oil and gas heating and give us air heating which would make us indipendent from russian oil and gas. Wää wää but its green. I DONT LIKE GREEN ANGYYYY" Litterly like small kids permalink fedilink source parent [–] Tehdastehdas@piefed.social 4 points 11 months ago I'm guessing systems thinking. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] okwhateverdude@lemmy.world 16 points 11 months ago (2 children) Understanding the larger picture beyond the immediate scope. Example of lacking: complaining about traffic while literally being traffic. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago Omg yeeeessss. Almost daily once my family constantly asked "why do you take the train? Makes you dependend on the unreliable DB and takes 20 minutes longer to your work place" Yes, BROOT, buuut these 20 minutes extra are walking from train to tram, from tram to work. Its also cheaper instead of blowing 100€ each weak on gas alone i pay 58€ (soon to be 63€) monthly and can use any regional public transport. Not to speak of trying to find a parking spot, car repair, stress from driving, environmental costs, increased insurance and so on. On the trainstation. I read. If the train is delayed. I continue reading or if its for a long time, look around the city some more. I cant wait to move from near them on the country side to inside the city. Yes it might be 200€ more expensive than on the countryside (i shit you not, thats the difference). Then i fully can get rid of my car because right now i still need it to get to the car because no public transport is running when i need it. But the 200€ will be out done by the costs i save on car expenses and health permalink fedilink source parent [–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 months ago Or such egotistic views! "Wäää wäää they want to take away my oil and gas heating and give us air heating which would make us indipendent from russian oil and gas. Wää wää but its green. I DONT LIKE GREEN ANGYYYY" Litterly like small kids permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago Omg yeeeessss. Almost daily once my family constantly asked "why do you take the train? Makes you dependend on the unreliable DB and takes 20 minutes longer to your work place" Yes, BROOT, buuut these 20 minutes extra are walking from train to tram, from tram to work. Its also cheaper instead of blowing 100€ each weak on gas alone i pay 58€ (soon to be 63€) monthly and can use any regional public transport. Not to speak of trying to find a parking spot, car repair, stress from driving, environmental costs, increased insurance and so on. On the trainstation. I read. If the train is delayed. I continue reading or if its for a long time, look around the city some more. I cant wait to move from near them on the country side to inside the city. Yes it might be 200€ more expensive than on the countryside (i shit you not, thats the difference). Then i fully can get rid of my car because right now i still need it to get to the car because no public transport is running when i need it. But the 200€ will be out done by the costs i save on car expenses and health permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 11 months ago Or such egotistic views! "Wäää wäää they want to take away my oil and gas heating and give us air heating which would make us indipendent from russian oil and gas. Wää wää but its green. I DONT LIKE GREEN ANGYYYY" Litterly like small kids permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Tehdastehdas@piefed.social 4 points 11 months ago I'm guessing systems thinking. permalink fedilink source parent