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[–] 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

nope, not to the dead. it tends to mean something to many living people

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  • [–] 1 point 11 months ago

    And it mattered to the death person while they still where alive. There's a tradition and it's safe to assume we only change it when consent was given previously. Like some people may write in their will if they wanted a poetic or special treatment

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