you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] 18 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Hey, if two (or more) people are making each other happy and doing well, right on. Yea that "traditional " style of relationship isnt for me. Especially the idea of withholding conversation or sex as punishment. Well, if it was kink minded then maybe, but I digress.

Anywhoots, being in a happy stable relationship certainly helped me get some of my act together. Hopefully i wont fully come apart the seams right now.

  • source
  • hideshow 4 child comments
  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    Especially the idea of withholding conversation or sex as punishment.

    What if the withholding is driven purely by emotion rather than being premeditated?

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 3 child comments
  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago (2 children)

    Like, someone is angry, so they dont talk for awhile? They are sad, so maybe no fuckey tonight? Etc. Thats fine. I dont mean to say they should always be talking or fucking.

    Withholding to punish, or to steer the partner a certain way is what seems problamatic.

  • source
  • parent
  • hideshow 2 child comments