Usually a big red flag, there is definitely some men who are genuine but so many just mean that they want a woman who uses a lot of make up 25/7. There’s probably only two men who I would genuinely believe if they said that and those are my biological father, because he was a very sweet and honest man, and my friend Atticus, because he is very honest and straightforward since he is quite autistic.

I really don’t care what men, or anyone for that matter, thinks about how I choose to style myself. I already get dirty looks from people for using my cane and braces so might as well do whatever I want. I’ve been wearing my cat ears out in public because I want to wear them.