Such a high horse for such a tiny person.
- On simplex you can "start chatting" asynchronously
- You didn't say "start chatting". You said "start sending messages" which is something you do with people every day
- "Start chatting" and "continue chatting" do not mean what you imply the mean. There is no distinction between them as "the absolute first time" and "all the others". I can start talking again with a friend I haven't talked to in months. I can also start talking about a previous topi (" me and my girlfriend started talking once again about having children")
So... You know... Maybe get off the horse? It's not that everyone around you is an idiot is that you failed to communicate... Or you are an idiot