"I want my software to stay out of my way and only update when I say to"
also me the moment an update releases for anything:
(media.kbin.earth)
My CachyOS (Arch) desktop gets rebooted somewhat often because it suggests I reboot after some upgrades. I guess it's kernel upgrades, but I'm not sure which do and don't trigger that recommendation. Nor do I really know how important it is lol.