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[–] 9 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It will if you give up and let them do what they want lol

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  • [–] [S] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Any form of meaningful resistance will be met with brutal violence and repression, which doesn't mean we shouldn't do it, but it won't be pretty. A lot of people will die if we do a good job.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    we have to find ways to restore the other side's empathy. it's the only thing that's worked for me.

    I'm trans. I spent months talking with TERFs, long ago. it was horrible. but, I managed to make a connection with one of them. I described my experiences, my life, the feelings of dysphoria, the hurt from the hate.. she listened, and came to care about me, and left their hateful cult.

    I repeated this with conservatives I met. taught myself to keep my cool, to be honest, to answer mocking with sincerity. I didn't try to be "one of the good ones," I didn't throw my sisters under the bus, I made it clear that most of us were like me - just wanting to live happy, fulfilling lives.

    we need to make friends with enemies. even when they betray us and hurt us. it's dangerous but I can see no better way forward.

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