Honestly, this is an age where we really need to be working on deescalating as much as possible.

I fully agree. And I would hope part of that de-escalation would be finding common ground with those with whom we disagree.

Instead of forcing the individual users to come and be yelled at one at a time, I'd love for them to have a place so we can start some sort of talks, even if it's just stupid shit like what video games they like. I dunno. If we can't find common ground then it's just two sides trying to destroy each other until it's too late to solve our actual problems.