@clarkiestar @Kwakigra @LadyButterfly My understanding is that ADHD is highly heritable, so if you have it, likely she does, too.And of course, with "command resistance"(?) layered on top, being told to do/not do something just makes it even harder.I'm •still• recovering from the trip my mother laid on me about that, 40+ years later. Maybe Dani's image above will provide an entry point for a more productive conversation!