First off, thanks for the thoughtful and detailed reply.

Which raises another point: there are no monolithic demographics of any significant size. Anytime you generalize about “nerds” (or any other group), nothing you say will be 100% correct across the board. Generalizations are still useful when viewed in terms of trends and distribution curves. It’s fair to say that men are taller than women even though there are short men and tall women. It would be more precise to say that the height distribution for men skews taller than for women, but I think most people intuitively understand the truth behind the simple, plain English generalization anyway, even if they don’t think of it in precise terms.

Of course, and marketing itself works with generalizations about demographics and targetting etc. As in anything there are extreme outliers, but there's definitely a bell curve, and I doubt most people are as near the poles as they think.

The way it looks: yes, absolutely. My current box is metallic black with a window. If I could’ve bought a functionally equivalent one with no window at the same price, I would have. If I could’ve bought a functionally equivalent one in hot pink for cheaper, I probably would have. (There is a functional aspect to appearance as well, since it’s in my field of vision and bright colors could be distracting, so I’d have to think about the pink. “Black” and “no window” are on my wanted-features list for this reason, but other factors can override those wants.)

Sounds lke you're primarily a value shopper in this case, which is fair, but for every one of you there's a r/battlestations poster who spent more for something aesthetic - and unlike others here I won't start "no true nerd-ing" those people away out of convenience. I to a certain degree am one of them, and I'm definitely a nerd (as is everyone on Lemmy). I'm sure there are different things you choose to splurge on.

I feel like at this point we should talk about the oft-neglected difference between marketing and advertising. There is an aspect of marketing that directs product development down a path toward what they understand people actually want. When done well, this is good. It should be the marketing department’s job to learn what problems people have with products in the field, and make sure those problems are addressed in future products. Advertising is a subset of marketing that tries to directly influence consumer behavior to buy whatever they’re trying to sell.

In the industry we'd rarely refer to those people as marketers (more like "market research", basically statisticians and much less cool) but you're right that it's on the same continuum. Focus groups fall in there too. I wouldn't really count it in this argument though because for most of us it's a fait accompli when we're faced with whatever is on the store shelf. It isn't something we can be "immune" to in any meaningful way, short of becoming a self-sufficient hermit.

But I’m no more likely to go into Dunkin or Starbucks just because they are advertised incessantly. You might find that hard to believe, and I wouldn’t blame you! I can’t prove it to you. And I understand that among the general population, repeated exposure affects perception, and by extension behavior, in subtle and deeply-rooted ways. I don’t imagine that I am immune to the effects that, for example, cause preschool children to prefer the same food from McDonalds bags vs unbranded bags (see https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17679662/). But we are more than our base nature, and these effects can be negated in practice. I suspect tech nerds in general have internalized stronger countermeasures than the general population. Not full immunity, because reality is too messy, but a notable resistance.

But do you have a favourite coffee place, or restaurant? How about a favourite hotel chain? We often don't realize all the subconscious triggers we're subjected to.