in your case I'd say Fedora with a DE you can customize to your liking. Honestly just go for a KDE Fedora then you don't have to think about it.

I'd also say CachyOS but that might be out of your ballpark. Cachy just works. yes it's Arch based but it's by far the best Arch based distro out there. Monthly, on the dot, updates and works with whatever DE/WM you want to throw at it. Hell during the installation it gives you a bunch of DEs/WMs to install with it and all have been customized to work with CachyOS so you don't even have to think about it.