I consider myself a Souls veteran and more toward the 'gud' side of the scale but Shadow of the Erdtree was a real kick in the teeth. I mean I loved it but Fromsoft didn't hold back on the difficulty. Even with all of the new collectable powerups it's burly as hell.
On the driving topic - maybe you can help me. I've got a bunch of racing games but am having trouble picking one. It'd be nice to have one that's easy enough to get into but realistic enough that it takes a while to master.