Fetlife sucks because of its lack of filtering. I don’t want to find someone who is in to similar kinks on the other side of the country/world. If they’d actually add ASL filtering to profiles it’d go a very long way.

Fetlife is like that too. “Find people with the same interests as you!”… select an interest: 120K people! Okay, let me filter by location? No. Filter by age? No. Filter by sex? Guess what, also No. So instead you have to hand scroll through all the entries. I don’t want to spend a lot of time connecting with someone with a common interest if they’re on the other side of the world.