@LowExperience2368 @YarraByte - cooking: weekdays, no shame in starting with a jar or packet, and just adding some fresh veg. Fri/Sat often have a go from scratch. - seeing people: I'm ruthless about making time for friends. I don't care if I'm not in the mood, or something else has to give. This comes first.- Sleep: no devices in bedroom. Ever. - Kids: yeah, basically just accepted I was constantly exhausted and nothing was really fun for 15 years.

@LowExperience2368 @YarraByte What works for me: - hobbies: pick just two, and ideally one of them should bring you together with friends, so that time counts under "seeing people" too.- exercise: I work in some walking in my commute, sometimes combined with bus. My home treadmill is next to my standing desk.- cleaning: Bare fucking minimum. I find it helps to allow myself to just sweep clutter into a box and sort the box out later if tidyness is urgent. 1/2