[–] 1 point 1 year ago (1 child)

Take away his other toys lol

Idk what got me into it, but I do remember that I would frequently play around with MS Paint at my mom's workplace when I was very young. I don't remember how frequent my trips to her job were, but obviously I didn't have anything else to do while there. So when we finally got our own computer at home, I immediately knew what I wanted to do on it. From that point I would start learning more and more.

I don't have kids, but lots of young children in my family. I've tried getting them into computers too, but they also seem scared of them. I think where I went wrong was trying to show off all the cool things it can do too quickly, as they might have gotten intimidated by the arcane rituals I did to make them happen.

Regarding games, idk. My first exposure to games was on consoles, and I didn't play any PC games until we got internet at home and I stumbled across flash sites. I remember spending WAY more time looking for funny videos/animations than games.

So... I have no real suggestions, just a few personal anecdotes.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago

    Idk what to say to this. Is it true? I don't know, and you probably don't either. That's a weird way to look at it and I doubt anyone has measured the power costs of the global email network.

    It's also useless for decision-making. What matters is a question like "how much would it cost me to host a server and contribute to the network?". Even if the total global cost is billions of dollars, the network will continue to grow because nobody has to pay all of it.

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  • [–] 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

    but scaling is hard, and distributed tech is hugely inefficient

    How is it inefficient for a chat app? If anything, a distributed architecture is the ideal for this use case. It's only potentially a problem if you need to have huge group chats, which is definitely not the common use case for a chat app, but even then I think Delta Chat's optimized relays can handle that.

    see how it goes, and when the solution has scaled in the real world to what it’s competing against then you can feel superior as the one that had the vision to see it

    Delta chat uses existing email infrastructure, which has already proven its ability to scale. Nigerian princes probably send more emails per hour than the entire global Signal network.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    From, the only info that's leaked is:

    • message date
    • sender/receiver addresses
    • message size

    So not nothing, but probably not a serious risk for most people, unless you decide to use an identifiable address for sending/receiving. Idk how Signal protects metadata, but it requires a real phone number, so it's probably not as secure as people think.

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  • [–] 0 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    My partner tells me on the rare occasion when I smell bad, so there’s no reason to think they’re saving my feelings. I can also smell the change.

    Is that the case? Or do they only tell you once the smell becomes unbearable? Usually, when you reach the point that you can smell your own stank, it's really bad for other people. Have you had an open conversation with them about this? It's an awkward topic for most people. If you're so adamantly defending your point here on the internet anonymously, I wonder if you're more defensive about it IRL, and off-putting to people who would otherwise be honest with you.

    In any case, one of us is delusional here. You? Me? I don't think we'll reach a consensus on that one.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    I'm not making fun of anyone. I know how stressful situations like that are, but you need to chill because being an abrasive asshole isn't how you get people to help you.

    When I looked for work with front end, everything is asking for framework experience, when I have raw html/js/css experience. So what you’re saying isn’t helpful. I’m pointing that out and asking for practical advice, you’re being a dick for making fun of my situation.

    I wasn't trying to be helpful to you. You are not OP. OP didn't ask "what should I learn to land a job". I never claimed that knowing basic js/css/html was going to help you get a job. Anybody can do that, it's webdev 101. I was pointing out that those basic skills are all you need to write good front-end software, and that most front-end frameworks are over-engineered and unnecessary.

    But to answer your question: learn what employers are looking for. Duh. You looked at job postings and found that they were asking for framework experience, so you already have your answer. If you land a web dev job, it's going to be to work on an existing legacy (and often shitty) codebase, not to write new software. The trendy/popular stuff is what's trendy/popular, so learn that to increase your chances.

    But most importantly, fix your attitude. It doesn't matter how smart you are if nobody wants to work with you.

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  • [–] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Chill out. If you want advice on how to find a job, post a thread asking for help. This thread is asking about javascript frameworks, not how to help you get hired. A lot of people are struggling right now, and you don't have to be a dick about it.

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  • [–] -2 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    Like, you're trying to make your point sound reasonable and well thought-out, but then you write stuff like

    I don’t wash in the shower what I wash out of the shower.

    Wtf does that mean? Your hands? Your face? Your asshole?

    I'm not a doctor, but I've been on this earth for enough decades to have met all kinds of people with different showering habits. Those that don't shower daily are easy to identify, either by their smell up close, or by their oily skin from a distance. Maybe you're an anomaly, and should be studied by doctors for your superior anti-stink genes?

    My partner wouldn’t lie to me about this, which I know because sometimes they do tell me I need a shower.

    Different people have different sensitivity to smells. I've known two people who have no sense of smell (and one of them habitually stinks). Maybe your partner likes your stench? Maybe they just tolerate it because they love you?

    Again, I don't care how you live your life, esp since it's unlikely I'll ever have to smell you. I have no ill-will towards you, and hope you live a long and happy life. But for the sake of intellectual curiosity and internet conversation, I'm not backing down from my position if all you have is a "just trust me bro".

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