I'll be going through the DLC of Elden Ring this weekend with a friend. His skill level is well above mine, so we tend to fare pretty well against most of the enemies in the game.
As far as which one forced me to adjust and learn the genre, Bloodborne for sure. I played DS1 and DS2 relatively close to their respective releases, and I always did slow exploration with the biggest shield I could find. Bosses tended to be almost more luck than skill. Then Bloodborne came out and I had to actually learn to dodge, especially once I got to the DLC. Over my first three playthroughs I learned skills that have helped me in every soulslike I have played since.
Honorable mention to Sekiro, though. Took a bit for that one to click, but once it did I had a blast. Unfortunately the skillset there is not quite as transferrable.




