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That's up to you really, I run my own. I'he heard good things about conversations.im and https://snikket.org/start/

For free ones, https://providers.xmpp.net/ is a starting point. If I'd have to choose, I'd probably go with Project Segfault, they have been hosting a lot of privacy friendly services over the years.

Hahaha that 2nd link, the audacity...