[–] 7 points 3 months ago (5 children)

Bro has never listened to psychedelic rock, doom metal, dance/edm/trap, prog rock, ethereal pop/cloud pop, chillhop, hip-hop or any other genre known for long loops intended to entrance the listener.

Like... What is music to you?

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  • [–] 14 points 3 months ago (7 children)

    You're coming off as quite pretentious in a lot of comments here.

    You don't have to enjoy art for it to be considered art. Frank Zappa sang a song about avoiding yellow snow, The Beatles sang about a yellow submarine and yet both were highly influential in the rock world.

    What is your end goal with this thread? You asked for Angine to be explained to you and yet you refute every attempt to explain that art is in the eye of the beholder.

    You don't have to understand it but a lack of understanding on your part doesn't make it not worth listening to you. Are you the art police?

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  • [–] 49 points 5 months ago (2 children)

    My job sees me putting a lot of really heavy objects on trailers, vehicles, boats and trains.

    You must say "She ain't going nowhere" and tap the load with your hand or else she is going somewhere you don't want.

    I swear by it. Every time I or one of my subordinates has forgotten the phrase its been a disaster. So we say it every time now and make sure the new guys do it to. Or else.

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  • [–] 9 points 7 months ago*

    Socialism doesn't mean that money goes away. It means that your hard earned money is yours to spend how you please.

    You're not forced to pay insane rent to line the pockets of a landlord, rather you live in a rent controlled neighbourhood where the profits go towards housing generations of people.

    Another way the money you have is yours to spend how you see fit: Rewarding other people like you and I for running the local coffee shop or splurging for the D.O.P. San Marzano tomatoes at the grocery store and insert that money directly into your local economy.

    Money exists, you just don't have to spend all of it on surviving. Rather, you can spend it on living.

    You still make money based on your merit and input, grocery clerks aren't being paid the same as neurosurgeons but both people can spend the same basic amount every month on living.

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  • [–] 7 points 9 months ago (3 children)

    Okay so hear me out. It's 2350, right? Humanity has expanded to the outer reaches of our solar system. Humaniry is divided into three classes of people, Earthers, Martians and those who live and work in space, Belters.

    Mars has become a free nation and is now in the middle of a cold war with Earth. Then one day a ship named the Canterbury disappears and someone named James Holden, an earther working for a Belt based ice hauling company says his ship the Canterbury was destroyed and points the finger at Mars.

    They could call the new show something like The Void or The Space Between. 🙃

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 10 months ago

    I appreciate the kind words.

    Generally I don't take these sorts of things at face value. The job comes with a lot of chirps and light teasing. Builds relationships and all.

    I just generally don't expect it to come from much higher positions than me. They should know better than to promote malicious behaviour.

    Like you said, doubling down is sometimes the play. I certainly had my opportunity to do so this morning when we all got together as a group again and a few people approached me about being interested in playing or asked me about the hobby.

    Annoying part was when I found out that this guy messaged another coworker and told them to "Sort me out." Which is alarming. The rest of the crew didn't seem so share the sentiment though and we all shared some laughs.

    We laughed about it though and left it at "Well, I guess the boss really doesn't like D&D lol"

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  • [–] [S] 2 points 10 months ago

    Ha! Stole the words right out of my mouth. I try to take a diplomatic approach to these situations but yeah.. Christ, some of these guys are dumb. I'm not the brightest crayon in the shed either but I can run circles around some of these losers.

    Some if them are incredibly intelligent in their fields. Some of the most skilled. But my god it's the only thing they know. Challenge them on anything outside their narrow understanding of the world and they resort to insults and vitriol. Sadly they gain strength in numbers. The more ignorant chuckle-fucks in a room the harder they beat their chests.

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  • [–] [S] 3 points 10 months ago (1 child)

    Oh god! Yeah that's fair.

    I think I watched an episode of The Panic Table playing Mothership and their DM actually pulled off a very convincing and I think respectful sophisticated Indian accent for one of the doctors aboard the ship. Brave but I think they pulled it off.

    May have been.. Episode 2 of Unaccompanied Miners?

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 10 months ago

    Strange how that kind of stuff works, eh?

    I don't think I've met a single person in this line of work that doesn't have some sort of hyper fixation or special interest.

    I know guys who can tell what type of mechanical malfunction a vehicle is having based on smell alone or that defuse bombs for a living then go home and keep a flower garden for their bees.

    It's usually a safe enough environment as long as you pass the vibe check for them. I probably wouldn't get away with my three syllable words and chapter books if I didn't look like I could do my job.

    Sad it has to be that way though. The hyper vigilance for who's "safe" or not is exhausting. But like you said. It's worth it to be better than that.

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    I just wanted to talk about this a bit. Get it out of my brain and onto paper so to speak.

    I'm away from home as I often am. Never with the same crew, though sometimes there are familiar faces. My career attracts the more "rugged" or close-minded types. I won't say bigoted because that isn't often true. Just... If it isn't sports, drinking at bars or stereotypically "manly" it's grounds for nitpicking. There's also a meritocratic rank structure and matching uniforms. I'll let you all deduce what that means on your own.

    Anyway, we all made our introductions, talked about the work ahead and went our separate ways. I've had great experiences with tabletop gaming at various locations and stages in my career. I was introduced to D&D by a long time friend and regularly play with a group of people from work.

    So... I figured I'd make the offer to the group in our text group. I told them if anyone was interested ever, that I brought a bunch of D&D stuff with me as well as some Warhammer 40K stuff and would love to play. We're here for 8.5 months after all. Might as well play some games.

    Immediately I'm met with rude comments by the most senior member of the group (who is not present) that he can't wait to meet me to bully me for being a nerd. I joke that I'll save him a spot at the table and another person chimes in that it's going to be a pretty empty table.

    Not many others chimed in. A few laughing emojis were shared and so on. Whatever.

    I'm not completely disheartened but it's certainly a kick in the nuts to make an offer for friendship or be open with people who are just as far away from home as you are and be met with that treatment.

    I know in time as others get to know me more they'll open up or want to join in. I've met more nerds and geeks in this line of work than I have outside of it.

    I'm also telling myself they're just afraid of things they don't know. I won't disparage their hobbies so I'll praise my own:

    A few times a month I get to sit around a table with some of my closest friends, family and sometimes new faces. I get to create a world with them where we can be free from the endless news cycle, algorithms shoving consumption in our faces and we can be happy together even for just a couple of hours.

    Sometimes I sit down at a little desk that I built myself and glue little army men together while my wife sits and crochets next to me and we talk about how our days went. My dog nestled at my feet and cats watching me diligently.

    I hunt, I fish, I play rugby, I work on my motorcycles, I powerlift and go shooting. But sometimes its nice to just sit down and enjoy the company of my friends free from social expectations, have a drink, smoke some pot and have a few laughs. I'll be missing that for nearly a year.

    I'm happy to enjoy the things I enjoy. I don't need other people to validate my enjoyment but it would be nice to have people be kind about it so I don't have to be made to feel so alone.

    I think that's the feeling I'm trying to get out in this post that's getting so long now. It was such an isolating feeling. It didn't have to be. But people who are uncomfortable with what they might see if they looked inside themselves for a moment projected those insecurities on me and isolated me for some cheap laughs. Over a decade in this line of work and I've never been met with such revilement. I've gamed with some tough and outwardly "scary" motherfuckers. I've never been bullied before. I'm in my 30s ffs.

    Thanks for reading.

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