Most of the modpacks that I play with my friends I make myself. That way I get whatever mods I (or my friends) want, except for maybe some that aren't available for the version I make the modpack for or that don't play well together. It does take a bit of time though and most of the time I don't bother making quests

Usually I just go on curseforge website and look there. Most modrith ones don't really suit me as I love massive mod packs with quests to guide me. I need a edn goal and progression in mine.

But usually I just go on curseforge and just filter by quests and the most recent and relevant version (currently 1.2* versions) and just scroll and scroll tell I find something interesting and download it on prism and go.im creative and see what's it is about and then repeat tell I find something

Check out Modrinth, it's an open-source modding platform that contains many mod packs.

Just google plus what im looking for in the mod pack. Though for now I’ve settled on vanilla ++ mods. Better Minecraft by Luna pixel has been pretty enjoyable so far. Even if it does seem to be somewhat balanced for co-op.

Try searching for packs for 1.7.10 and 1.12.2, they're older versions but they have A LOT of modpacks, even some that are still developed