Could also be lil' straight boys into big gay women :3

I prefer the great quote:

"Hard men make soft times, soft times make soft men, and soft men make me hard"

for me it was lil bi boy to big (mostly) gay woman. i feel like i craved connection to my community.

In my case it’s scared lil’ boy -> scared lesbian women (plus a teddy bear for good measure)

soft men make me hard /s

Large hairy straight man ---> giant hairy lesbian, in my case.

Look, mom! Another caveman asshole giving unsolicited comment!