That's fair.
I'm sorry, I just can't stop myself from launching into this spiel every time I hear a comment like your first one. There's a huge swath of gamers that I feel like would actually love my favorite game if they weren't scared away from it by gamer circlejerk. It's not my mission in life to defend Dark Souls to people who don't care about it, but I often assume that mantle despite myself.
At the end of the day though it's just a game about self reflection and personal growth, and I like that.