Does anyone really like these? Like the ones where you see people once a year and just talk about how work is or if you took a trip? I'm not from a family that does this so I don't exactly have my own opinion but it just seems pointless.

Eta: thank you for all the perspective, good to know there are some strong family ties out there! I have something similar with friends.

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They are often very fun and you get to see people you normally don't get to see! It's nice to catch up with everybody, and gatherings usually come with very good food toom You also have excitement of the celebration of a holiday, being able to share that with your extended family is awesome!

Of course, it's not all sunshine and rainbows, sometimes one of my older relatives will go on about something (nothing racist or anything, more about manners, etiquette, tradition, etc., but they seem to never stop talking!) and I have just have to respectfully listen. It is definitely outweighed by all the fun stuff though!

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