Conditional empathy is weird.

What's kind of like telling every man you meet to prove to you that they are worth you giving a single fuck about them.

Like, obviously, something has gone different in your life than it did in mine, and that's fine, but, like, I've always provided basic human decency and basic respect as the default, and given people the opportunity to add to that, or take away from that, based on their actions.

And bringing up your attractiveness on a text-based forum isn't really adding to the conversation. It's kind of more like a sympathy plea. You could be lying. You could be a 73-year-old diaper wearing white guy.

Or as the older saying goes, "everybody is a dude on the internet", so I can't say much to address that at all.

I am sorry that you feel unattractive, but I've seen literal shugoth hag beasts like my sister land good-looking, decent, upstanding guys based off of the force of their personality.

So you're just as bad as the men you're complaining about. Got it