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[โ€“] 2 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Not sure what your context and life story is. From my perspective it seemed like an aggressive and vitriolic choice where "stupid" would have sufficed. As an insult it seems to have a lot more cultural weight behind it which is why I called it a slur. Words are all just sounds, it's the societal landscape which decides what they actually mean. My friends were telling me they've been hearing that word used a lot more frequently as an insult than they remembered from a couple of years ago, so I was particularly primed to make a comment on it.

I am not in favour of censorship of people's words at the state level. Language is a community project which should be dealt with at a community level. Which is why I said something. I think we should try to be a bit kind in how we speak.

Now that I think about it I don't think calling people stupid is helpful either. I feel like a lot of "stupidity", especially as relates to politics, is about low quality schooling and a social media landscape which is designed to implant and further certain beliefs.

Yeah anyway, I guess, mostly I'm tired of watching the world crumble around me and would like to start building things so this mostly ended up as a pile of my random thoughts. I hope you're having a less tiring day today ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  • [โ€“] 2 points 13 hours ago (1 child)

    I do understand the perspective, I just feel like going after "Retarded" as a slur is dumb on multiple levels. One, it diminishes actual slurs and what they represent. Two(which I've already covered) has actual uses outside of just being an insult. Three the devolution of our language due to censorship is an issue as a whole and this bothers me(Grape, PDFile come to mind as well). Four, its inconsistent with the other words of the same tier and meaning. And Fifth, it only became designated as a "slur" relatively recently which wraps back around to point one.

    And last but not a viable point, there just isn't a word that is as succinct as "retarded" for something so incredulously dumb that it defies belief, in my opinion.

    With that all said, I hope you understand I wasn't coming after you personally, you just triggered something that's been bothering me. Again, sorry you got the brunt of that rant. Even that last part wasn't for you. Please have a lovely day.

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