I appreciate you sharing the music of your people!
If I understood right, a lot of the "complaints" relate to how they handle their default settings and how they're laid out. Both aren't too bad out of the box, bazzite comes pre-arranged and Cachy has rock solid community support through the wiki?
It sounds like the biggest trouble you came across was your tendency to tinker is what got you in trouble. Typically, I'm pretty set-it-and-forget-it, so playing with it shouldn't get me in too much trouble. God forbid something goes wrong, my knowledge triples every time I have to fix something haha
I also got a distinct "but also, distro-hopping is fun, don't be afraid to mess around", which I think is what I'm trying to answer 🤔