What you're describing as forgiveness sounds closer to reconciliation or even toleration.

Here, you may find this illumining:

https://philpapers.org/archive/EMEFAR.pdf

Emerick, Barrett (2017). Forgiveness and Reconciliation. In Kathryn J. Norlock, The Moral Psychology of Forgiveness. Rowman & Littlefield International. pp. 117-134.