Personally i have them trimmed, i find it extremly uncomfortable when they reach a certain length, like they tangle and it almost hurts and gets itchy which is weird. Also i can't stress enough how disgusted i am by wet hair while getting eaten out, that sensation is just the worst. Sometimes i shave them off completely for sexy times, my boyfriend does not care that much day to day but is very excited about hairless vulva now and than.
In general i would like to not have everything about my body being political, i don't want people to tell clean shaven women they are attracting pedophiles and hairy women that they only do it to make some kind of feminist statement. People like differnt things for personal non political or evil reasons and while we are obviously all influenced by our cultures and media, there is a time and place to discuss beautystandards, its not in the pants of individual women.