you're making assumptions about people not saying anything, based on the (observed) behaviour of 4% of the population, and then, believing yourself to be the only one to either a) call people out and living as you're learning, or b) not caring even a bit, take an assumed moral high ground which given a) is amazingly narrow-minded, or given b) is downright disturbing.

people do what they can, and they should be commended when they change for the better. a tool notably does what it's designed to do, and should be criticised if that thing is bad.