I think you might be drastically misunderstanding what a reverse proxy does.
Reverse proxy: Gives EVERY computer a direct connection to your network if you make it public, which it certainly sounds like you mean.
VPN: gives only you access to your internals.
In terms of connecting from work and not allowing some untrusted computer, there's a hundred different options, even running portable QEMU from a USB and using that trusted virtual machine to connect.