I spent some money and got a Flint 2 and installed vanialla OpenWRT onto it. I have two free static IP addresses from my ISP, I planned on setting up a mail server on one of them but that dream crashed down on me when I started learning about it! Anywho I use one of my static IP addresses and wireguard to VPN into my place where I have two very finally tuned to block things and all my devices use that connection when I am away from home. I can use Jellyfin and show off all my other services like Mealie, which I just set up so it is pulling recipes out of webpages every 6 hours. KitchenOwl, that helps me make shopping lists I needed something better than a notes app. My HA setup that has all my IoT stuff and my reminders. My *arr stack, and whatever else I feel like sharing. I have not shown off Mealie of Kitchenowl yet as I have just got them but I have shown off the *arr stack and pretend to be insulted when people ask me what I use to watch the shows, movies (Jellyfin) not sure what I will be using for music but that is something I will figure out when I am closer to recomining my collection.
*edit: I should maybe also mention I have a VPS so if I really wanted to I could do this all on there but I have a fleet of pi’s a 2014 Mac mini running Debian and hopefully a hand me down 2018 Mac mini that I will put Debian on in the next few weeks.