As part of crowd work at a comedy show.

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[–] 1 point 1 week ago (2 children)

What's your libido like then? High, medium, low? What do you do when your needs are boiling over and need to be met? Do you kind of sneak away to a corner like a sick animal to take care of it, or are you allowed some "ceremony", semi-openly? Will your ace partner perhaps participate in some non-sexual way, even?

Sorry if I'm inquisitive, this is just very interesting to me as a high-libido person. 😅

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  • [–] 2 points 1 week ago (1 child)

    When we met I had a pretty high libido.

    My ace partner does not participate in anything, but I am afforded respect when taking care of myself.

    Boiling over is a bit rough, but we are clear about acceptable outlets and boundaries. So the usual "make sure you communicate" part is important.

    I think the important part is I really just love my partner so much that I tend not to notice the lack of sex.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 week ago

    Very interesting. Thank you for sharing!

    My perspective is something like: I love my wife so much that it drives me crazy when I can't make love to her for a long time for whatever reason. 😅🔥 The same passion is there as it was a decade ago. 🫣

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