Family is an institution. Community is an institution. Punishment is an institution. Therefore the act of shaming and excluding someone in isolation from the community as punishment for wrong doings is an institution. I guess we have different definitions of authoritarianism, that the edicts of punishments in aboriginal Australia & Nigeria fit your definition of authoritarianism.
Also why did you bold ADR?
so like a third party doing this, instead of the folks affected by the wrong doing?
re institutions
A prison (no matter how rehabilitative or how well managed with democratic oversight) is still an institution that perpetuates authority (of the guards over the inmates for example), and quite obviously coercion.
Then aboriginals still coerce punishments in isolation and shaming as imprisonment.
contradiction of trying to formulate an institution that enacts coercion in a supposedly anarchistic system?
I think this is paradox you can't seem to realize. At what point is wrong doing rehabilitation and reparations coercion, and when is not? The paradox here is how much solidarity and intersection you trying uphold. Unless you think wrong doings shouldn't be coerced at all.
No coercion needed when the community just refuses to engage with the person until they right their wrongs.
What if the wrong doing was coercions in itself: Like rape, murder, subjugation. How do ostracize and exile a rapist, murderer, and subjugator to cease these coercions on the community?