I ended up taking a peek over at the subreddit last night out of curiosity, and I was genuinely shocked. People seem genuinely desperate to place all the blame on her and almost none on Ethan.

Your original comment makes far more sense now. She is absolutely responsible and should be held accountable, but I agree people are taking it way too far for her, and disturbingly, acting as if Ethan was nothing more than a helpless participant even though I agree he's far more at fault here.

Genuinely disgusting. The community I'm seeing over there is a disgrace.