I definitely went on this ride over the course of a year+:

Stage 1. I got called ma'am, wow that makes me feel very interesting!

Stage 2. Bleh I definitely am not a dude... Being referred to as a guy is actually yucky!

Stage 3. Let's try they/them on for size.

Stage 4. Hmm, that's better. But I wonder if there's more to this...

Stage 5. https://genderdysphoria.fyi/ Mind. Blown. I am a girl this whole fucking time!!

Stage 6. We're going to ride the She/Her train, let's fucking goooooooooo!!!!!!!

Several trips to the thrift store later, I am the happiest gal this side of Estrogenville.

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