Fun fact: There's so many fricking crows where I live, if I started feeding them cheap unsalted peanuts, I'd have a massive crow army at my disposal within two weeks tops.
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I think it's precisely because Picard is uncomfortable with that sort of thing, and probably has a reputation for it. I hear that hint of "unamused" too, but I think it's at Picard's immaturity with respect to the situation rather than "Why would a starship captain allow this to happen".
I'm not sure the ribbing is that gentle, though I don't read it as aggressive, either. More of a "Captain Picard Day? You're actually participating in this, Jean Luc?" I don't think they're that close, probably only by work meeting/reputation.
I think either reading could be accurate, though. I don't think this Admiral appears in any other episodes so we don't have a broader picture of her.