I sincerely request that you step away from the keyboard until after valentines day
(memes.memedroid.com)
It really is that easy. UK here so our equivalent to HOAs is far less restrictive but does cover the entire country.
Usually if someone doesn't have decorations out they are left alone, if they do then they probably have sweets to give out. Which sweets is entirely up to them.
Some schools arrange trails which seems pretty nice.